What To Do About a Residential Trip if My Child Gets Homesick

There are many ways to tackle homesickness before, during and after a trip.

Going on a residential trip as a child can be an exciting and enriching experience. It offers them a chance to learn, explore and create lasting memories. However, for some children, being away from home can lead to homesickness. As a parent, it’s important to know how to address and support your child if they start to feel homesick. In this blog, we will provide you with some valuable advice and ideas to help your child overcome homesickness during their residential trip.

Preparation is key

One of the best ways to help homesickness is to prepare your child mentally and emotionally in the days leading up to the trip. Talk to them about the upcoming adventure, discuss the positive things that will happen, and highlight the exciting opportunities they will have. It’s also a good idea to remind them of previous successful experiences away from home like sleepovers or shorter trips.

Foster independence at home

Before the trip, encourage your child to take on responsibilities at home that will promote independence. Things like packing their own suitcase, organising their belongings, or taking on small chores can help them build resilience and confidence which can be beneficial during the trip (plus it helps you out too!).

Pack familiar items

Packing a few home comforts can be helpful for your child. It could be their favourite stuffed animal, a family photo, or a small blanket. Having these familiar items from home can offer them security and help them feel more at ease in this unfamiliar environment.

Encourage communication

Before your child leaves for the trip, discuss the importance of staying in touch. Make sure they’re aware of available communication options, such as phone calls, emails, or video chats. Reassure them that it’s okay to reach out if they feel homesick or need to talk. Knowing they have your support even when away from home can make a huge difference.

Engage with the trip organisers

If your child is worried or anxious about being away from home, you can communicate this to event organisers or teachers in advance. Sharing this information will help them understand and support your child better and they can also provide additional attention and care when needed. They can also keep you informed about your child’s progress during the trip.

Encourage participation

It can be easy for children to withdraw from the residential trip activities when they’re feeling homesick. Before they set off, encourage your child to actively engage in the activities and bond with others. This emphasis on other aspects of the trip – the importance of trying new things and enjoying unique experiences – can be a positive distraction from potential homesickness.

Young kids building a raft on a Kingswood residential adventure trip.

Positive reinforcement

Offer plenty of positive reinforcement and praise for your child’s bravery and independence. It’s important to let your child know that you are proud of them for stepping out of their comfort zone. This encouragement can boost their confidence and motivate them to overcome their feelings of longing for home.

Follow up after the trip

Once your child returns, take time to have a conversation about their experiences and encourage them to share both the positives and challenges they faced. This debriefing session can help them process their emotions and reflect on their personal growth, which can help them for future trips away from home.

Homesickness is a common experience for children on residential trips, but with the right support and strategies, it can be managed effectively. Each child is different, so be patient and understanding as you support them through this experience.